Friday, March 26, 2010

I feel the poem is talking about how cultures either deal well with death or look at it as a disasterous horrible thing. In the poem it states " the cliff shall rise or subside until the plate of earth is without fissure.(ryan)" I think this is stating the different ways culture handles death. When someone dies we find it sad and if we are close to the person we morn and it is hard for us to look past the dying part, the fact that they are no longer in the world with us. We see them as being out of reach from ourselves, and think about how we will never see them in this life before. What most people forget or look past during these hard times, given their religion is that they have a chance to see this person again some day. There is always a way to think about the posatives of dying, and in my religion it is based on how the person lived their life. My grandmother recently passed away, and it broke my heart into. She was the most loving, caring, happy, religious woman I have ever known, and just knowing she went to Heaven made her death easier. I'm not saying I was not sad, but knowing that I will one day see her again and that she is with the Lord rejoicing and all her pain and sarrows are gone, it makes my heart happy. I will admit I am selfish at times and that sometimes I wish she were still here, because she was always there for me, no matter what and now with her gone I find it hard, because I will have a problem and go to call her then remember I cannot do this. I think that the poem is saying that even though people die, life still goes on, the world still revolves, and will not stop because people have left it. So if someone close to you dies, remember this, and even though it will be one of the hardest things to do, remember them and think of what they would have wanted for you. Sometimes people are in denial, and live life like nothing has happened, this I feel is one of the worst things to do, in any situation for that matter. To ignore something completely will only make it worse when true realization comes about. It is not healthy and in the long wrong will not make things any easier than before. The poem is insisting that even though souls have gone it is a cycle of life, people will leave, things will change, but this will change nothing given the world view. Everyday babies are born, and for every death there is life. I think this is what "All shall be restored(Ryan)" is getting at, that death is natural and even though it is hard to deal with or even understand why it happens, but for death there is life. I think a lot of people have a life change after a death, I have seen and experienced this myself, and I beleive it is because they realize that life is too short, and even though they may have known before hand, death is like an eye opener.

3 comments:

  1. I do agree with you that religion does have a lot to do with what people believe about passing on. There are so many religions out there with numerous ideas of what happens after death. As a result according to the religion one believe in has a big impact on what they believe about dying and how they handle it. I really like how you mentioned that life goes on the world does not stop for you when you die, which saddens me. It holds a lot of truth to it because so many of us live selfishly myself included. We spend so much time on our wants and desires we don’t think about what we can do for those around us. I find it to be very sad when one passes on and people don’t really have anything good to say about the life they lived because it was lived only for themselves without any attempt to impact the world. Even though the world does not cease to exist after we pass on we can impact the way people view our lives. Judging by the way we lived our lives, if one lives trying to make a positive impact on earth and loving on those who they come in contact with everyday once they cease their life does not. Based on the life you life you can make a lasting impression on the lives of others and even though you may not be able to change and last in the world you can change and stay in the hearts of those who you impact in your life time.

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  2. I couldn’t agree with you more with your last statement, that death is a real eye opener. Death really does remind us how fragile our lives really are; no one is guaranteed another day on this earth and God can call us home at any time. I recently had a friend of mine pass away and although we lost touch over the years, it had such a big impact on me and it was definitely a life changing experience for me. He was such an amazing person and I know that he would rather have his friends and family remember him as the person he was before he passed away and not the way we saw him lying in his casket. I think this is true for many of us, I know personally I wouldn’t want my loved ones remembering me in such a negative way, I want them to remember my life; the length of our time here on earth doesn’t matter, it’s what we choose to do with it that matters the most. We all find ways to cope with losing a loved one and I love how you think of it- that we will see them again. I think keeping that optimism is the key to keeping our deceased loved ones alive in our hearts.

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  3. I must say I truly admire how honest you were with this topic. I also couldn't agree more, it really comes down to religion, and what we believe follows death. I really liked how you talked about your relationship with your grandmother, and how you admitted that at times you do want her back, even if it is selfish. I think this is something we can all relate to and understand. I realized about a year ago that I had never really lost someone who I was extremely close to. I've been to more than my share of funerals, for friends and some family, and yet it was never someone I had a close personal relationship with. Up until this time about a year ago, I hadn't ever given thought to it, but upon attending the funeral of a relative of someone close to me, I witnessed something new. It was a Christian funeral, if I can describe it as such, in that they had worshipped, and rejoiced that she had gone home, not that she had left us. That was when I really realized that just because someone has died doesn't mean it is something to be sad about. We can rejoice that they have gone home.

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